for almost a year my what thought was loving caring girlfreind has been having sex and phone conversations with this person, to be flat out with my story, i wake and hear someone talking on the phone, but before i can get up come up the hall she hangs up, she will me i wasn't on the phone. it started, I think while she up in north carolina, you she went as far as to bring the down here telling me he was here to help me work on her house, I been doing the for her for free for almost two years, she tells me she has not did anymore than just just talk to to this person, but she takes lone trips gone for hours, it's almost well le's just say, i have go at 4.00, or it's been planned...please help, i'm planning doing her free if she is cheating on me