No thanks on partner swaping
No thanks on partner swaping
Posted 07/27/2010 - 03:06am by lena oval
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The Accuser:
lena oval The Accused:
my husband,
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I am married to a 50 year old man. I am 39. We have been married for 3 years, and our sex life is not exciting.. I never wanted to really cheat on my husband, but we needed some changes.. So we went to a swingers club, met a couple, got to know them a little bit.. We talked about a group session, (all 4 of us). We did it, it was nasty, and degrading.. (2 me). I decided that I did not want to do it again, and I never wanted to see these folks again, cause that partner swaping thing aint for me. I just stop speaking to them.. No texting, and no calling. They still call my husband on occasion, and I laugh, because he is cool with them.. I ain't mad about that.. I just pass on the whole thing... Honestly, I think Im too good for them.. The situation is just sick to me... They think its ok to switch partners for sex.. I pass, and now that I have made it clear that I pass, they wanna talk bad about me.. Y. Me and my husband have kids, 14, 10, and 7... I just call it common sense, I would never want my children to find out about their parents doing that. We tried it, it wasn't good, and they continously call like some vultures..And now they talk about me, cause I dont wanna swap with them... and then they have the nerve to tell my husband they can get together without me if he wants to... he aint crazy... (I'll file for a divorce) Am I... CRAZY??.. I think its a dam shame that they are married and find it to be okay to cheat on each other infront of each other... which would explain why 2 of there kids are in the pen.. Go figure, .. anyway I laugh at them, cause they keep trying to communicate with me... I don't wanna be bothered with them, that shit wasn't cute.. I wish I would have never done it, especially since they announced to all of their friends that I wa thei girlfriend... I aint nobody's girlfriend... Im married... Anyway, Im half way asleep typing this... Gimmie some opinion's or feedback on this... Im grown, and to me bed hoping is some dangerous stuff... diseases... and besides just cause you do it infront of your partner.. doesn't mean is ok... Do you feel me?
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Have you talked to your husband about,how he felt about the partner swap? He may have liked way more than you. Also, was your husband into this kind of stuff before you got with him? These are some questions you need to talk to him about. Express to him that you are not comfortable about the couple contacting you and you don't appreciate them suggest he get with them behind your back. That is reason enough for him to stop contact. A couple making such a suggestion to your husband is disrespectful.
People do make a point, you decided to do it, and now its done. It's not sick just because you weren't into because everyone has right to decide what's appropriate for themselves. At some point you need to tell that couple face-to-face that you don't not want or appreciate them contacting you and it should stop immediately. It's time for you and your husband to have a long conversation. Good luck!
Why did you do it? Sex life is boring? Omg u did it ur like them u did it. U should of thought bout it before u did it.
Were u that hot? U did it get over urself. Ur husband bet he is already fucking behind ur back he liked it that is y he talks to them. Change ur number, stop being a baby bout it. U did it....
I wouldn't still allow the communication between the parties. If he is communicating with them, it's not for verbal support in any way. He is still f*cking them behind your back!
tell your husband that the thing makes you sick and if he doesn't tell then to forget it and leave you alone,,,,he will be cut off..... my question is was the sex boring for both of you or just him?
i think therapy or videos should have been tried first.
Yoyr right that it should have never happened in the first place but what is done is done. The question I have to ask is why does your husband still talk to these people when they bads things about you? And why do you let him talk to them? In my opinion there is only one reasopn why he still talks to them, it couldn't be more obvious. I would keep my eyes open if I were you.
Yoyr right that it should have never happened in the first place but what is done is done. The question I have to ask is why does your husband still talk to these people when they bads things about you? And why do you let him talk to them? In my opinion there is only one reasopn why he still talks to them, it couldn't be more obvious. I would keep my eyes open if I were you.
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