i had met this guy Juan through family. at a weekend barbecue. He had beem invited to come along as he was a friend of my brothers I had not .not met him up until this day. As the day wore on and after a few champagnes and the hot sun started to affect me. We had beenexchanging glances most of the day. when finally we began to speak and struck up a friendship. A few days later Juan had telephoned me and asked me ouit to a movie and dinner. i had given him my number eqarlier on at the bbq, we had gone to dinner an d then onto a movie. he seemed wonderful. After a few months of dating. Juan had moved into mmy home. and we settled down to domestic life. Juan had told me that he had been working in a an interstate mining position and he was away for two weeks at a time. and then he would be home for two weeks. After a two year relationship. of being away for 1/2 and 1/2 with two weeks with me and two weeks away. i had decided to go shopping in the next large town which was 120 kilomwetres away. my mum and i had been wandering through the shops. with my mum walkming in front of me. and i happened to spot Juan walkimg towards me with another woman. and pusging a pram with a young baby in the pram. Also with them was a young girl approximately eighteen months old. I ntoojk a second look to be sure that i was not mistaken. Here was my partner in front of me with a woman, and what i now know as his two children. I felt physically ill. and immediately vomited. i was forced to re gurgitate the mouth full of vomit. my mum didn't see them or see my reaction. As luck would have it Juan had not noticed me either. As he had his head slightly bent towards the toddler in the pram and had been pre occupied. i turned sharply into the adjoining rows of the clothing. and being a short person. I was able to basically hide in between the clothes. As Juan had walked straight past me. i had my back to him. But i was able to smell his unmistakable smell of the trademark aftershave that he always wore. it was the paco robane that i had bought for him. i felt physically ill again. Once more i had to swallow the vomit, that had found it'self in my mouth. My num had came back to where i was and found ne standing and and lookig pale and sick, whilst sweating profusely. mum asked me what was the matter. i told her that i suddenly felt sicdk. She asked me if i was pregnant. i said no im not pregnant.
We left the shop and proceeded to drive back home. not saying too much whilst on the drive home i did feel sick. and nervous. my mum enquiring all the time on th hour and a half drive home. Later that night i decided to call Juan on his mobile to see how his daty was going at work. we often chatted daily whilst he was away. Often we would chat for up to an hour art a time. I did not tell him that i hasd seen him with a woman and kids. when he was supposed to be at work in W.A. It took all my strength and resolve not to say anything to him. He was due back on the coming weekend. three days away. When he arrived back to my / our home he was his usual loving and happy self. That night he tried to become amarous in bed as was the normal case. After being away for a couple of weeks, it was always great to catch up on the lost intimacy. This time i cdold not bring myself to allow him to touch me. i had to make up an excuse. this went on for the next thirteen days. i was cold towards him and refused to allow anty intimacy to take place. It was difficult to keep my cool.
When it was tione for Juan to leave once again. we said our goodbyes.
The next day i had gone to the local police station to see a freind of mine whom i had gone to school with . He was now a pokice officer . i explained the situation to him and asked him if he could do a registration check for me. he did and he had suppliede me with an address for the vehicle registration. it was for a house in the town that i hasdd spotted him in. A couple of days later i got the courage up tpo drive to the town and to see if i was able to spot the car or Juan at the address that i had been given. i arricved there and waited down the road a bit. before getting up enough courage tpo confront him. i knocked on the door. and a middle aged lady answered the door. i asked if she knew Juan . and if he was there. She told me that he did not live there but she had an address as to where he may be . As she had been re direting mail to this address. she gave ne the directions and the address. i vwent straight to the house. determined to fimd the amnswers to this nightmare that i had been going through. i knew in my heart that it was not going to be a pleasant experience. And that i was going to get hurt. As i turned the corner ad turned onto the street. I immediately spotted his car in the drive of the hose. There was another catr in the drive as well. I decided to park the car a few houses away. and walk to the house. With heart pul[itations and feeling sick i knocked on the door of the house. i knocked a little louder. Eventually a woman aged about 30 years answered the door. and i asked her if she knew where Juan was? She asked who i was and i responded by saying my name is Debbie. it appears as if we have something in common. She asked what would that be? ?
I said does Juan work away frpom home for a period of time. She said yes . what does thart have to do with you/
I then said he is living with me. She said you are a liar. With raised voices between us Juan appeared in the hall just inside the front door. His face was ghostly white. i said loudly what have you been doing you f.... peice of shit. He said cooly to th other woman and myself. oh it looks like i have been caught out. i said to the woman who are you . what are you doinfg with my partner ? She said what dio you mean? i repeated it ain.
I found out that the person whom i was confronting had in fact been the half sister of Juan and they had been keeping theitr sordid relationship very secretive. as His relationshgip with me. I waqs absolutely floored and disgusted. He had fathered children with his half sister. They had shared the same father . And they had ben raised together., They had staqrted their relationship when they weere pre pubescent tewenagers 12 years old. It had started by them playing around under the covers in their beds. and had led top intmacy. They had een screwing for sixteen plus years. and had managed tpo keep it a secret. Here i was i had been sleeping and lovoing with a guy whio was having a full blown relationship ewith his sister.
I walked away and drpove home alone. Woith tears rolling down my face and blood shot eyes. i was a mess bth emotionally and physically. i waited a couple of days and i arranged for a courier to come an d collect all of the persoonal items that belonged to Juan and i sent the courier with his items on a COD basis. and i kept the things that we had bought together.
I have not spoken to him now fr a few months. i do not wish to speak with either of them. i have not told my brother the real reason why we had broken up.
I hd considered notifiying the police and authorities. about the incestious relationship between them. Is it realy my bisiness. ci am hurting as i thought that i loved my man> Apparently he loved his sister more than me. I don''t know what they are going to tell their kids.? who is the mum the dad the uncle the aunty.
im glad that i found out. Sorry tat it turned ot the way that it did.,
Debbie