Maybe you should have had better taste in men. Roll with the punches...nothing in life is guaranteed.....

First of all. Jennifer, ignore the idiot man who is probably bitter because he has 5 "baby's mamas" because he doesn't know how to spell CONDOM.

Second, I have been in your boat for 13 years. They (Florida) only took my ex's drivers license about 3 years ago, and he continues to drive too. He is almost 60 thousand dollars in arrears.

I have to say that even though it is a struggle, do not give up. I called my local child support agency twice a week. They were on a first name basis with me. The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

Also, get as much help as you can from your State. I spent 5 years trying to get support that had been ordered without avail. After I was hospitalized, I had to get some state assistance. You would be surprised how fast the state will try and recover THEIR money. And you can feed and insure your kids.

But others are right....don't deny him rights to see them. First, they are two different issues....second, it is more difficult for dad to deny his children when he has actual contact. Don't force that either though. Make him be responsible for that!! Good luck hunny

First of all. Jennifer, ignore the idiot man who is probably bitter because he has 5 "baby's mamas" because he doesn't know how to spell CONDOM.

Second, I have been in your boat for 13 years. They (Florida) only took my ex's drivers license about 3 years ago, and he continues to drive too. He is almost 60 thousand dollars in arrears.

I have to say that even though it is a struggle, do not give up. Ii called my local child support agency twice a week. TThey were on a first name basis with me. The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

Also, get as much help as you can from your State. I spent 5 years trying to get support that had been ordered without avail. After I was hospitalized, I had to get some state assistance. You would be surprised how fast the state will try and recover THEIR money. And you can feed and insure your kids.

But others are right....don't deny him rights to see them. First, they are two different issues....second, it is more difficult for dad to deny his children when he has actual contact. Don't force that either though. Make him be responsible for that!! Good luck hunny

What?! No way let this deadbeat get away with it.... if you already have a child support case, go to your local clerk of the court and ask for paperwork to file for a Contempt of Court hearing... at our local courthouse it just costs .90. Fill it out, have it notarized (any bank you have an account in will notarize for free) and follow the instructions on where to send it. You must have the deadbeat's current and correct address. If he ignores the letter where he is to appear to court for the hearing and doesn't show up, then a warrant for his arrest will be issued. Which you can facilitate if you know someone in law enforcement or know someone who knows someone.... that way if he's caught driving without a license guess what? he automatically goes to jail.... any money collected if he bonds out will go to you. We can do this together if we know what to do and how to do it. Our child support system is lacking and what's supposed to be a good thing for single mothers has become a burden. Don't let him get away with it.... he must be held accountable after all you didn't make this babies by yourself... good luck!!!

Whether they are together or not. He has financially obligations to his child. Regardless of his feelings towards the mother.

To the author,
Most of us knows someone who is a friend of a police officer.
If you know where and at what time your ex arrives at his job, have a friendly officer pick him up as soon as he exits his car for driving with and expired license.
Also, do not worry, it only starts out with the license being taken away.
Later on they will put him in jail for not paying his child support.

I think that you should try and move on and not deny your children the visitation from there father. In the long run he will have to pay even if they have to confiscate his IRS tax return or in the coming year he will end up in jail. I went through the kinda same not paying baby daddy and its not worth ur time and energy. Waste that time and energy on your children. I cncentrated on my daughter and in due time you will find someone who is worthy of such a beautiful family. So my advice to ur is put your energy on your children because they are the only ones that matter. Ur children will make there own opinion on there father. My dad never paid and was never ther and I learned not to hate him but formed an opinion that I would take a bullet for my wonderful mother and I respect my father but its not the same.

I think that you should try and move on and not deny your children the visitation from there father. In the long run he will have to pay even if they have to confiscate his IRS tax return or in the coming year he will end up in jail. I went through the kinda same not paying baby daddy and its not worth ur time and energy. Waste that time and energy on your children. I cncentrated on my daughter and in due time you will find someone who is worthy of such a beautiful family. So my advice to ur is put your energy on your children because they are the only ones that matter. Ur children will make there own opinion on there father. My dad never paid and was never ther and I learned not to hate him but formed an opinion that I would take a bullet for my wonderful mother and I respect my father but its not the same.

I think that you should try and move on and not deny your children the visitation from there father. In the long run he will have to pay even if they have to confiscate his IRS tax return or in the coming year he will end up in jail. I went through the kinda same not paying baby daddy and its not worth ur time and energy. Waste that time and energy on your children. I cncentrated on my daughter and in due time you will find someone who is worthy of such a beautiful family. So my advice to ur is put your energy on your children because they are the only ones that matter. Ur children will make there own opinion on there father. My dad never paid and was never ther and I learned not to hate him but formed an opinion that I would take a bullet for my wonderful mother and I respect my father but its not the same.

you fukin women kill me. you swear you can live without the man and then bitch and moan about how hard life is that you have now tossed him out. go out and get a fukin job or another man. Why should a man have to live in his mother's basement because you don't love him anymore/ stop your fukin whining